Ni iki gushushanya bishobora kuzana ku bana?
1.Kongera ubushobozi bwo kwibuka
Ahari kubona ishusho yumwana idafite "imyumvire yubuhanzi" nagato, reaction yambere yabantu bakuru ni "graffiti", birumvikana.Niba igishushanyo cyumwana gihuye rwose nuburyo bwiza bwubwiza bwabantu bakuru, ntibishobora rero kwitwa "fantasy".
Abana bashakishije kwibuka bibitswe mu bwenge bwabo igihe bumvaga ibintu by'amahanga, hanyuma bakabigaragaza mu buryo budasubirwaho mu buryo bwa "bwana" na "naive". Bamwe mu bahanga mu by'imitekerereze ya muntu ndetse bemeza ko guhanga kw'abana ari byo hejuru mbere y’imyaka 5, hafi ya umuhanga mu gushushanya.Ibiri mu bishushanyo byabo ntabwo ari ubusa, ahubwo ni ubwoko bwo kwibuka kugarura ukuri, ariko uburyo bwo kuvuga ntabwo aribwo buryo tumenyereye kwakira nkabantu bakuru.
2.Gutezimbere ubuhanga bwo kureba
Ntukamukubite amaso atizerana mugihe umwana wawe yishimye yerekanaga "udasanzwe" mugushushanya akavuga ko ari super ~, ibyo ntibitsindwa ~.Nubwo ifoto ari akajagari gato kandi imiterere ikaba iteye ubwoba, wigeze umenya uruhare cyangwa imyifatire ibyo bintu dukunze gusezerera mubuzima bwacu bwa buri munsi bigaragara mwisi abona?
Mubyukuri, iyi niyo mikorere yubushobozi bwabana.Ntibibujijwe nuburyo bugaragara, barashobora kwitondera amakuru menshi abantu bakuru badashobora kubona.Isi yabo y'imbere rimwe na rimwe iba yunvikana kandi yoroshye kurusha abantu bakuru '.
3.Gutezimbere mubitekerezo
Kuki buri gihe duhorana ikibazo cyo kumva icyo abana bashushanya? Kuberako dutandukanye nibitekerezo byabana nubushobozi bwo kumenya.Abakuze nk'amategeko, ikintu nyacyo, n'isi y'abana yuzuyemo imigani.
Mugihe kimwe, gukoresha amabara birashobora kwerekana neza ibitekerezo byabana bitinyutse.Bashushanya amabara uko bishakiye bakurikije inyungu zabo n'ibyifuzo byabo ... Ariko ntukoreshe "bikabije" kugirango wumve isi babona, kuko mumaso yabo, isi Byari bifite amabara.
4. Kurekura mugihe cyamarangamutima
Abahanga mu by'imitekerereze ya muntu rimwe na rimwe basaba umurwayi gushushanya mbere yo kuvura umurwayi.Hariho kandi iki kintu muri psychologiya y'abana.Binyuze mu gusesengura ibishushanyo by'abana, intandaro y'amarangamutima y'abana n'indwara zo mu mutwe irashobora kuboneka.
Abana bafite umwere karemano kandi bifuza cyane kubigaragaza, kandi umunezero wabo, intimba nibyishimo byabo biragaragara kurupapuro.Iyo badashobora kwerekana isi yimbere bakoresheje imvugo ikungahaye, uburyo bwo gushushanya-ubwonko bwo guhuza-gushushanya bwabayeho.Muyandi magambo, mubyukuri, buri gishushanyo cyerekana ibitekerezo byukuri byimbere byumwana no kwerekana amarangamutima yumwana.
Igihe cyoherejwe: Gicurasi-19-2022